i’ve got a message from a dear friend last night asking for a favor. i would love to help. after all, what are friends for? but i refused anyway. she was asking me to call her husband to check if, once he answers his call, he’s on a bar.

why do wives need to always ALWAYS know where their husbands are? maybe there’s nothing wrong there if he hasn’t told you where he’s going. but if he said he’s going to a bar. just believe him. and for the love of God, don’t spy on him.

besides, even if he’s out with another woman, what would you really do? are you really going to leave him? are you sure you won’t just look the other way? if so, why the need to know?

like they’ve said, what you don’t know won’t hurt you. why bother?