1. tracy commented on August 30, 2008 at 8:49 pm

Hi thea,

God put you in that dilemma because he knows that you can deal with it and he knows that no matter what you choice you can deal with the consequences of your decision.

If you choose not to tell her, The marriage might be saved, but for how long? We know that secret can’t be kept forever.

If you choose to tell her, The marriage might be saved but their life will no longer be the same after the revelation.

What will I do? Well, I’ll tell her. I think she has the right to know even if it projects that I meddle in their personal life. Cheating is painful but not knowing that your husband cheats on you while others(A friend or a family member) know it, is more painful.

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2. kelly commented on August 30, 2008 at 10:54 pm

gosh. difficult decision huh?

maybe you could give her a hint? (haha. anobatong advise ko sayo)

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3. Marie commented on September 01, 2008 at 1:45 am

I would probably confront the guy… Or at least make the guy know that I know.

Bahala sha mag isip if sasabihin ko sa asawa nya. If he is bothered by it then he will talk to me. And then I tell him to decide. Either he tells his wife, or I will tell. Either way, she has to know.

If I was the wife, I would like to know.

4. N!cE commented on September 01, 2008 at 5:43 pm

Baka alam na rin ng wife yan. Lam mo naman tayong mga ladeis malakas din makaamoy.

Pero i would let the wife know. The truth will always set one free no matter how hard it hurts.

Just my thoughts….

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5. joy commented on September 04, 2008 at 8:32 am

ako ba yan thea? si sherwin ba nakita mo? sabihin mo!! bwahahahaha

i will tell the guy (if we’re close ha) that I saw him. and that he should tell his wife, or i will tell her. kaming magkakaibigan may usapan kami. once makita ang asa-asawa namin, sumbong agad hahaha

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6. Apols commented on September 05, 2008 at 4:09 pm

ayyy, ako di ko kaya ang ganyan not telling her…

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7. Apols commented on September 05, 2008 at 4:10 pm

oh btw, is she reading your blog hehehehe!

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8. Vannie commented on September 05, 2008 at 4:19 pm

natawa ako sa comment ni JOY! bwahahahaha

^_^ wala akong ma comment kase i hate these kind of situations/
its tricky and none of our business but still nkakaguilty knowing what you know, dba?

anyway…happy weekend!

9. thea commented on September 06, 2008 at 10:29 am

thanks sa replies!

naku apols, di sya nagbabasa ng blogs ko. walang net sa office nila (bhira din sya magfriendster). although i asked her san nagwowork hubby nya. she replied with a place not in the same area i saw her hubby. pero sabi nya nagfi-field asawa nya. lagot! hahaha.